I don't want him to face discrimination. Your words , your rhythms, your clarity is helping people, I think you know that,you are helping people to heal. Ijust cant believe theyre doing all this so we have a happy Christmas, she says. The internet is a wonderful thing. Dear Lemn Sisay Lemn Sissay as a child, with his foster family He tells me what happened when he met his mother a decade ago. I just read My Name is Why. It was an amazing, troubling account of your inner strength and vulnerability through a long, frequently unhappy journey through the harrowing British foster-care system. I went to Foster Parents who loved me very much!! Oh ! You are an amazing man and your family must be so proud of you. It was a glimpse into the incredible writer you were destined to be. Linda & family. I saw your baby picture..what drives people to be so careless with children and see themselves, their own selves righteous in the the eyes of God. He was the official poet of the 2012 London Olympics, has worked with the British Council and is a patron of the Letterbox Club, supporting children in care. Christmas came with the tree and the fairy lights, the baubles and the presents, but all those other unseen ingredients the real flavours of the season were absent; all those essentials that, as the Grinch finally realised, cant be bought from a shop. The picture was given to me from her college. He looks a bit startled by the question, as if it would be the gateway to a life that is still almost unimaginable. Thanks for being in touch and I hope one day to read on stage in Malaysia. Totally aware, hypersensitive, neurotic, worried, unable to sleep at night, I moved in with friends of our family; by age 15 my name was changed from Wendy Kay MacPherson to Wendy Kay Olsen, reflecting their heritage. As a radio broadcaster he makes documentaries for the BBC. From the point of leaving care, he began the search for his mother and took back his real name. Who really cares?. So I dont understand your comment abovethe last time she saw him was at my conception. Neither disowned nor distanced none. And that humour has always been part of our relationship. it cant be worse than the persistent insomnia, night terrors etc which are crowding in on me and are getting worse as I age. We recommend you to check the complete list of Famous People born on 21 May. to chill out to. Even though I live in London, I'm near Millfields Park and Hackney Marshes, so nature is a central part of who I am as a city-dweller. Sissay, though, is a member of the second group. I get so irritated when I hear people saying to children in care: Why dont you become a social worker when you grow up, so you can change things? How little imagination do these people have? He stands approximately between 5 ft 5 inches-5 ft 6 inches and weighs 61 kg. He was raised in care, first in a foster family and then, from the age of 12, in a string of childrens homes. I am in awe of the person that you have chosen to become, despite all the hardship you went through. I dont know whether to start now or wait and read your book Any thoughts? The shame of being illegitimate and silenced out of respect for our adoptive parents. According to her papers her biological mother fought to keep her and went to court twice to fight for her daughter but in the end she was forcibly adopted. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); One Extraordinary Woman in My World Now: Yemarshet Sissay. Series 1 Episode 2 of 3 Sally Phillips meets celebrated poet Lemn Sissay to discover how a hard childhood shaped his view of Christmas and how he now helps spread joy to hundreds of other care. Sissay was born in Billinge Hospital, near Wigan, Lancashire, in 1967. As a child, I had no family who were of colour. Peter Andre looks back: This sauna suit would always come off mid-song, Original reporting and incisive analysis, direct from the Guardian every morning, Lemn Sissay and Valerie Bloom look back: I was a wild child when she met me, Lemn Sissay (on left) and Valerie Bloom in 1992 and 2022. for writing a number of books and plays such as "Tender Fingers in a Clenched Fist", "Rebel Without Applause", "Skeletons in the Cupboard", "Don't Look Down" (1993), and others. I've seen the poets - I have a series on Radio 4 at the moment about rebel poets. In 2014 Sissay was appointed as a Fellow of the Foundling Museum. You could see straight away that there was talent there, and very deep emotion. So that we can prepare our joint grave [22] Later that year it was announced that he would appear in a revival of Jim Cartwright's 1986 play Road at the Royal Court Theatre. I want to be there.. We neeed more & more people to speak out about our uk care system and the kids that are in it they are HUMAN they have feelings we have hearts Up until now, some of those people probably thought care leavers equated to shoplifters. Hope you like it: Small, slight, black, surprising Hello Lemon, Families are about the power of suggestion, says Sissay. She was twenty one. How does that feel for a young person?. It would later be the focus of a major investigation into physical and sexual abuse. I have trained as a foster Carer and I am waiting for my second child. Open the dawn in the open sky In 2015 he became chancellor of the University of Manchester, and his latest book, Dont Ask the Dragon, is out now. Thank you and yours for your remarkable journey. And because of your resemblance to my father and the amazing human you are, I have so much love and appreciation for you. Its rare in todays society to see someone tell his story without rancour but focusing all the time on the positive or smiling at the world as you put it so beautifully. Sheor he is being paid. He has a Buzzcut hairstyle with clean and shaved facial hair. I cant help but wonder what your adoptive family think now and if they have any regrets. Dont forget what l said on our journey Lemn , try to make some time for yourself. She said: "I love his poetry because it is so moving and not skin-deep. He took up his new role on 1 August, with an installation ceremony held on Foundation Day at the university on 14 October 2015, at which he said: "Reach for the top of the tree and you may get to the first branch but reach for the stars and you'll get to the top of the tree. Born in 1967, Sissay was the child of an Ethiopian mother who was forced to give up her son against her will; he was fostered by a white couple from Lancashire who sent him back into care aged 12. But she couldnt, so it sort of broke down, and I walked her to the bus stop. Thanks for sharing your story openly. My Mum left when I was 8 years old and although I continued to see her it had a profound effect on my personality. Christmas is a moment to pause, to look back, not just year on year but across a lifetime. Its the same. My birth mother was Dottie MacPherson, born Dorothy Viola Quick, and she married my father as her 2nd husband, and they had 3 kids together; and then later I got adopted after both parents died, when I was 13. I entered the world of poetry very late in life but it doesnt matter as long as people like you inhabit it. Official Lemn Sissay site featuring Lemn Sissay news, books, appearances, blog, videos, music and landmarks. Your talent in the art of poetry is so beautiful with such evocative expressions. Keep shouting from the roof Tops on behalf of the Kids [32], Sissay was appointed Officer of the Order of the British Empire (OBE) in the 2021 Birthday Honours for services to literature and charity. My daughters are grown up now as I was born in 1964 so all good. I was so moved by the power of his poetry. However, what Sissay was doing was not unlike most children his age: he was eating sweets without permission and staying out late at night. All the best for the future. The trauma of their relationship severed when he was 12, when she demanded he be removed from the family home holds the key to his childhood, to his bestselling memoir My Name Is Why, possibly to his whole life. The University of Manchester chancellor and broadcaster grew up in foster care and . My reunion with birth family has brought happiness on one side and fresh rejection on one side. Who did they go to, what did they read, whom did they worship, what pictures did they see in their dreamsI want to apologise to you to God to all the children. Well, I encountered your story on the BBC programme Imagine I cant remember the last time time I was so gripped. But it seems that pain and aloneness led to the beautiful, generous, intuitive being you are. So I will now find your books and read them. I think she asked for my forgiveness, and I said, What for? Because I wanted her to articulate exactly what it was she thought I should forgive her for. He also earns a decent amount of money by being a book writer. One Love x. While the journalist explained: "He has never. You should know that I have no family, It was the beginning of a paper trail.. Hello Lemn, I just ordered your book My Name is Why and cant wait for it to arrive as I have read your initial story which brought me to tears I have lived a similar story and its made me tough (too tough) and I NEVER cry after reading just your initial story I sobbed for a while and realise now how cathartic it can be. Did you ever feel anger, if so how did you deal with it? It gripped me and I was keen to see a picture of you and your mother, thank you for sharing. He even came to the state we all are to visit. I first saw the picture when I was twenty one. Before we get to know each other A post shared by Sissay Lemn (@sissaylemn) As a poet, I now travel all across Britain. What do you do? So yes, he says, he would love to settle down with someone; he would love children. So much shame that we bear for what we have done, ALLOWED. Your triumph over adversity gives hope to so many. They are not in contact, he adds, sadly. How can we( I work for a small independent fostering agency called Amicus) book you to come and talk to our Young People here in Bristol? I stay in villages and towns from Barnstaple in Devon to Grasmere in the Lake District. Goldthorpe named Sissay "Norman" and put him in the care of foster parents, telling them to treat the placement as an adoption. Poet Lemn Sissay with care leavers Chantelle Chamberlin (left) and Megan Macleod. While I didnt know my biological family, I knew my parents and brothers and sister must have been of colour. But I was dark skinned I have a French name there were always questions. It's been that way My husband and I were touched, even cried. I was a bit of a wild child when she met me. Just read your book Why and tried to find out if you found your mother and so glad you did.l am ashamed of our care system after reading your book so glad you are now successful against all the odds. We grow into adults and look back at the people who called themselves Thanks Azlan, I remember the Berne gig. Such a lovely heart warming story. They were white, working-class people with aspirations: the husband a teacher, the wife a nurse. It needed shaping, but his words touched me. Yesterday I heard your interview with Stephen Sackur. I would really like to come to a Worksop that you hold. I feel,like she really understands having lived on the other side. Lemn Sissay. A survivor of the English Carecare system I love South Africa. I just keep struggling to act appropriately, feel uninhibitedly, and talk to everyone kindly, including strangers, through all our stages of life. I have just heard you on Sunday Miscellany, your powerful words and poem moved me to tears! When you all meet it is the beginning of the journey no the end. It was as if I was a rat in a maze and theyre looking at me going oh, hes turned this way. And why do we hate young people in care?. 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