There are good restaurants there, but they are more like Uzbek, Uighur, or Dungan. It is a bit much at this point. About the part you quoted at the end Im standing by what I said. If you think I did, you should report me. It does happen even in the States. Just some blockage in the vas deferens.. ", "Also, I ordered Fajitas and was served a quesadilla with bell peppers in it. Then the tech would come back and knock to see if youre ready. I was shocked when she started removing her top! Here, its quite common to have a naked medical exam. WebArizona Urology is a premier medical clinic that provides the Valley with first-rate, patient-centered, and comprehensive urological health care. Seeing my embarrassment as a young male, she asked and finished,gently stripping off all of my warm snug outer clothes including that European spandex underwear. Patient here; For my first gyno visit I was pretty anxious and clumsy about the whole deal. A long button down is a great suggestion. After massaging me for what felt like hours, he stares at my junk for a long time, before telling me that The consistency is right, you have a nice scrotum kid. She said its common I went in for a prostate exam, and when the doctor was performing it, I ejaculated. Im not religious and Im not put off by nudity in the least. Its a very fine line indeed. Not sure of x-ray costs but its not $30 or anything. During one of my very first consults, a very attractive young woman came in with a knee problem. There are a few dishes that are okay, but the lack of strong spices or seasoning makes this something I don't enjoy much. Aside from the surprise of not being given a gown to cover up with, everything went smoothly and was efficient and well run. Then he proceeds to stand there with his appointment book scheduling our session for next week as I rush to pull on my pants and socks. Teenager comes in, thinks he might be sterile. ), that would clearly be a sexual assault. 'Crows feet' - when a middle aged woman smiles, the tiny wrinkles at the corner of her eyes are a reflection of all the smiles shes ever had. Patient wasn't all the way under and while I was helping the surgeon, we heard coughing and what sounded like water falling. Book in french are ok for you I guess, this one is usually well appreciated by French Women. I respect everyone elses too. I wasnt given a gown or anything to cover up with. Well, maybe its not normal for a doctor to ogle you (in any part of the world), but in France they definitely do NOT give you anything to cover up with no dignity I tell ya! I am always fascinated by cultural differences of all sorts between countries but our reaction to nudity (our own or others) has a special resonance as I cannot understand why an American, for example, should feel any more vulnerable being naked than, say, a French person when visiting a doctor in France. Its like being in a French Medical facility. When he was done he said, "I've had such a nice chat with you I almost wish you had a third ball." I hope you passed! Your email address will not be published. This also applies to cashiers, counter help, hotel clerks, custodians, security guards and everyone else in similar positions. But neither of us was uncomfortable with the arrangement. ", "Once we've figured out the details, I'd make a decision. WEll maybe the norm is not walking past the divider curtain and peeking in, but it is normal to not be given anything to cover up with or have privacy while youre undressing at the doc. The physical therapist is professional and has never done anything to make me question his judgment, but Id be lying if I said I wasnt a little shocked he barged right in on me. Just curious. Caw!". Acquaintance was a 17-year-old male getting a physical from a female doctor. Bumps in the genital area might be STDs, but are usually not serious. 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No 1 am trips for overly expensive, off-brand tampons at a convenience store, and theyre better for the environment. 2001-2023 The Pain Reliever Corporation. 'Im not cheap b**ch!!' Thanks for weighing in! WebUrology is the medical and surgical specialty that focuses on the urinary tracts of males and females, and on the reproductive system of males. And even if we didn't mean to, our words and behavior can hurt other people's feeling. I live in America and I still dont know why so many women and even men are embarrassed about nudity, especially at a doctor where the professionals have seen it all. I was asked beforehand whether it was OK for Dr. X to observe, and I said it was. It seems like these Redditors laid it out for us: discussions would be key, as well as boundaries. He doesn't understand. Im like no way in hell, dude! Im holding in my diarrhea-churning stomach. I powered through that shit, because when the guys with PhDs tell you to do something I like to assume its because they fucking mean it. Taking risks. Its just common sense. embarrassing urology exam. But no. So, the first available doctor is a man in his 50s, Id guess. He turned his head and did his best crow imitation: "Caw! On the rare occasion when an erection would be so much as dimly useful for a urologist - and spoiler alert, porn has lied to you, an erect penis is typically a problem in examinations, not a requirement - its shockingly easy to induce an erection. I bet that happens everywhere though. Even more embarrassing was when she gave it back after I was getting changed out of my hospital gown. Its been a year since the last comment, and over two from the original post, but I want to point out that subcultures can differ markedly from the prevailing culture. I had the same x-ray experience in Belgium when I was doing the paperwork for my work permit and a chest x-ray was required. Now I just have to do a pre-joining fitness test before being given a start date. ", "It's not the lewds/nudes that bother me, its the selling subs a 'girlfriend experience.' We suppose they're so used to not talking about a patient's personal issues with anyone but them (thank you HIPPA!) ", "I live in Los Angeles so this happens a lot but basically whenever you talk to somebody, and its all about them all the time. 2020 George Takei. Perhaps their affable and friendly nature makes someone more attractive. I still hate myself for it. I stumbled upon a similar article to yours a while back and brought it up to him his immediate response was that you should always keep your underwear on and just take it off when it needs to be off. It all happened in about 3 seconds but felt like an eternity of unending embarrassment and shock. But if someone is refusing to do so, it is a red flag to me. One such indicator is the number of teenage pregnancies. My daughter hurt her ankle so my wife took her to a medical center. ", "The best food I had there was in Kyiv in an Indian restaurant! ", "HOWEVER, don't apply the waiter test the first time you meet someone. We get none of the privacy and respect for our dignity that women get from the opposite sex. Just let it slam. Once finished, he asked me if his trainee could also take a look, I mainly worked in a hospital but I also spent a few months at a private clinic doing general consults and a few of the male doctors I worked with were very creepy! I thinks sometimes its the fear of the unknown that is the issue and not knowing whats next or whats expected of you causes even more stress. Like how weird would it be to have some girl offer you her seat and say 'by the way, you got a nice nose' and then hurry off the bus lol. Culture shock? Interesting to read the comments indicating this should not be the norm. My involvement with bladder cancer patients consists of surveillance flexible cystoscopy, this procedure is done as a day case and involves the use of a scope that provides an image of the lower urinary tract. again, so it's not something I'd feel comfortable in supporting. She was blonde, probably about 25 and was smoking hot. Oh no, Alice, that sounds so embarrassing! I learned right away how easy-breezy an X-ray is. ", "When theyre always the victim in conflicts with friends, coworkers, etc. Like, are you telling me I have to actually subscribe to Popular Science now? She gently flipped my penis up and covered it with a towel so that just my scrotum was exposed, and that did it I had a full fledged hardon within 6 seconds. Sometimes she will hand me a tissue to wipe off the precum. The nurse and doctor And for the record, at the gynecologist, you get completely naked right in front of the doctor, dont get a gown to put on and do not get a sheet to cover your private area during the examination. He was examining my eye and he said, OK, now open wide.. Lets keep moving forward. These jokes make me feel abused as the doctor quite frankly. Im sure a nurse had to remove my panties and butt plug. Being very light I was A digital rectal exam (DRE) is a simple procedure in which a healthcare provider inserts a lubricated, gloved finger into the anus to check for abnormalities in the rectum and pelvic area. Ive never been to a doctors visit any time in Europe including France. Look after it. Its 100% the cultural norm in France. Still being a diva cup noob, I wasnt very adept at fishing it out, so after about 2 hours, several positions, and a shower, I rush to the on-campus doctor. Its really nice having a physical examination by two female medical specialists ( doctor and RN nurse) Although this in the U.S.A, both ladies are very good, professional and gentle with me, as a male. The doctor is in a position of power and as the patient, you want to follow the doctors orders he/she is the educated one who is trying to help so its only normal to trust them. WebAnswer (1 of 13): Question: When a man goes to a female urologist or female doctor to get a check up, does a male nurse have to be present? Short answer: No. The funny thing is I always thought it was pointless that the doctor left the room while you stripped and came back in later, just a waste of time, but I realized while doing it that it was 10 times more awkward stripping down with others in the room. I had to go for a urology exam due to a lump on my testicle. You get used to it, as a male after a few serious time consuming visits and medical exams by her. I like privacy! Chlamydia, an STI, often has no symptoms, but must be treated. The Lamb Clinic provides a comprehensive assessment and customized treatment plan for all new patients utilizing both interventional and non-interventional treatment methods. As an American male and being helped by getting any snug and sexy attire off become just a natural happening with a French or European female doctor. Each to their own I suppose. She does break eye contact after the examination is over, I suppose thats to indicate this is business not a general chat or time to get to know each other while naked. That doesn't mean they're immune to the sorts of embarrassing moments that happen to us all. I was working in my house recently while totally nude, a normal thing for me. Be less self conscious, the way you expect men to be, and perhaps itll be no big deal like the female staff always tell me. We go to an urgent-care hospital, and as soon as I get some anesthesia, Ive stopped thrashing, and they can properly diagnose me. No one else can tell, but even just the idea is so hot for me. I was at the eye doctor. I had my navy admission physical exam recently and it was done by a male doctor. Stay up to date with everything Oui In France! Any doctors out there? Can I Get STDs Through Casual Contact Like Hugging or Touching? We disclaim all responsibility for the professional qualifications and licensing of, and services provided by, any physician or other health providers posting on or otherwise referred to on this Site and/or any Third Party Site. When I was at the hospital giving birth to my son, the doctor broke my bag of water. I think.) Its my first comment on your blog, but I have to say this: I dont think its a cultural difference, acting like that for a doctor is not normal (Im French). When I realized what I was doing, I quickly peeled my face away and apologized frantically. Well, I hop in the shower, touch my junk, and yell in pain, falling in the process. Being the good little patient I am, I did exactly that. We take our beliefs and social customs with us and while I can learn about what the French do, just because Im here doesnt mean I will automatically be able to act French. Nor should I. I lost so much weight in the six months I lived there. Kids acting like this is an everyday NBD kinda thing. I'm almost sad.'. You should be allowed to keep your bra on (apart from during the breast exam) and be given a sheet. ", "Why does she have an OF? Older man teasing me after his prostate exam that I "took his anal virginity". It did. Hi Eddie/Scooby, youve left numerous comments like this here on this post and elsewhere on my blog and theyre really off-topic. After a couple minutes of waiting, in comes the nurse. I like being medically examined by her this way, than being totally naked with no gown covering me. I mentioned that Im not embarrassed, and she said that she wasnt either. I love when people are true to themselves and geek out about things. Most of the exam was okay, just normal stuff like listening to your heart & lungs. Sorry to me its a guy thing so it should be discussed with a guy only. Naked in front of the doctor seems to be the norm. Im kind of kinky. It doesnt bother them, as it seems to a natural human situation., especially when they may watch you undress completely and youre wearing very sexy and snug clothes and seem to take some more time getting it all off an if youre an American woman or a man. High bridge of the nose. I mean even if its just for the patient to feel more comfortable, its worth it! I could have easily worn a normal bra and not had to get my hardware out for the little Indian doctor. At a gyno appointment when I was 19, I was all situated on the table with my legs up, fully exposed. That was it I now had a full on HARDON and in a very embarrassing position.Well if that wasnt enough she now sits right in between my legs and this is what I thought was kinda weird?She then just sat there and was asking all types of medical questions, and seriously this took like 15 minutes.The whole time I have this full on erection and too my horror now I'm dripping precum really badly.Now when she finally gets ready to look at this stupid ingrown hair thing ,oh and still have this erection she then grabs some tissue and starts whipping the precum off my penis.At this point I'm sooo beat red and horrofied that I couldn't even look at her lol.She kinda just laughed and she something like "well I guess we know that works good". Try being male at ANY medical setting, anywhere. Thanks for the heads up Diane. I was escorted to a room, told to disrobe right in front of her and then told again to remove my bra as well with her standing right there. When I was 15, I went to my pediatrician for a check up. So now, if someone walked in on me like they did to you, I would probably give them a piece of my mind lol! My doctor always requires that, Im completely undressed for my examination too. Even though I am straight, there are certain things I do not feel comfterable showing or discussing with females. Even just seeing the doctor greet me himself, in normal street clothes, was a bit of a shock. Yeah, I coughed a little harder than usual, and I splattered poop everywhere. She was very gentle with me also, yet stayed in the room as I started to undress, unbuttoning and unzipping my warm outer winter outfit. Surgical tech, I was in the OR prepping the patient for a bladder sling. In a funny way but totally a pervert. I don't know to this day if he was messing with me, but I'm pretty sure I just told him to Google it. Traveling to places that intrigue you. Its only the brainwashing you have been given that equates a naked body with being somehow dirty. Hi Richard, glad you found my post interesting. I showed up for my annual girly checkup to find out that my usual doctor had been called to some medical emergency and was asked if I would I mind an OBGYN student performing the pelvic exam (supervised, of course). The nurse took my BP and weighed me Leave it up to the patients, but if some want to pass on gowns and other coverage and go au natural, let them. Of course there are other factors involved but by and large the more nude-friendly a country the lower the teenage pregnancy rate. She said its common, but I was totally embarrassed. Lady Redditors will probably understand how miserable a pelvic exam/pap is to sit through once- I was a little nonplussed about a second time but whatever, just get it over with. He just had the most perfect looking nose I've ever seen on a man, and he had the brightest green eyes. Required fields are marked *. So, theres a busy hallway full of people with a clear view into the room. MedHelp is not a medical or healthcare provider and your use of this Site does not create a doctor / patient relationship. xD. We tell him to go home and bring us back a sample. Its the first time Ive ever had a medical professional be so casual about nudity with me. When I asked her why, she said her previous doctors always required her to strip to her bra & pants for any examination so they could do a general inspection. WebHe probably tells colleagues this story over and over again. But not so in France. Excellent point about the patient not even realizing if something extra was done. I live in the United States and have adopted the nudist/naturist subculture. Yes, I had to get totally naked and was somewhat embarrassed as a guy while the nurse and and female watched my whole male medical plight, especially when I was in mens spandex sportswear with a healthy involuntary erection and slowly undressing layer by layer til finally completely naked. While getting a prostate exam for a physical, I asked if he could tell Letting your hair down. Seriously who puts a guy in those sterope things I mean all I had to do was lay on the bed normally i'm sure,not pread eagle,and completly naked shirt as well,also weird I thought.Second why would she have me in that position, with her LIKE right there,and then start asking me questions for seriously 20 minutes no joke.And I mean she had to have noticed I was embarrassed especially the fact that I had a FULL HRADON the whole damn time.Also when she noticed I had like lots of precum on my penise she would just go ahead and start whipping my penis.This also hapend problaby 5 times during the 20 minutes I was sitting in the stupid foot thing,I mean couldn't she have giving me some tissue and let me do it.Basically I'm wondering If I should tell me parents about this or not?I'm still feeling really embarrassed about this and it happend last week. Like I said, men dont get a choice and its getting worse and worse for us. I was getting snipped and they had me on some valium. 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